To perfectly synchronise ... we need to understand our partners.
Find out their expectations.
Or ... their deepest desires.
... including weird desires ... that are beyond the dogmatic thinking.
But ... of course ... is complicated.
To accept.
To tolerate.
Even ... to think about it.
On the other hand... imagine you would meet such a person ... which can understand you perfectly.
And of course... accept anything you do.
Tolerate all ... smiling.
Living in acceptance ... but in that absolute form of acceptance.
I guess ... would be amazing.
I would love to experience that.
I've just saw today ... such an example.
An interesting interview with a lady from UK ... telling
about how she had 40 men ... on her birthday party.
Most certainly it was a gang bang party.
And she was defining ... so, so excited all ... as ... "I had the most fantastic day" .... "40 men in one day. That was my birthday present for myself."
Ironically ... and very difficult to be understood ... was that she ended the night .... having a drink with the husband.
Most ... probably chatting.
Defining all ... with excitement.
Well ... indeed a weird interview.
Not easy to be understood.
But ... a real case scenario.
Defining... in fact the dark side of the human nature.
Seeing all ... beyond the standards.
But ... realistically ... i just want to ask 2 questions.
Number one ... would you tolerate be into the relationship with a person that has such sexual desires?!
And number 2 ... would you like to have such a partner ... that would tolerate your darkest desires?!
Most certainly ... we know the answers.
... in 99.9999% of the cases.
But ... the funny thing is that all of us have a dark side.
We all have ... weird fantasies into our minds ... just like this lady i am talking about.
And ... the question is ... what is the real difference between us and her?!
Well ... first of all because she allows herself to have such an experience.
... beyond the standard.
Beyond ... the dogmatic way of seeing sexuality.
Personally ... i wonder how would look my life in the couple if i would be allowed to express my dark side.
And ... experience all.
I mean .... really all.
All my ... dirty fantasies ... which exists into my head ... by a long, long time ... but were never expressed.
Today ... i also smile ... thinking of a partner as the lady from the interview.
But .... honestly ... if the fantasy exists anyway into the mind of that person ... what is really the difference if it is expressed ... or i don't tolerate to be expressed?!
Maybe ... i am too ... naive.
Or ... go too deeply into my conversations with you.
On the other hand i don't want anymore to be ... boring into my writings ... so i am just defining ... the real truth ... beyond the focus of my thoughts...
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